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How to Get a Japanese Girlfriend?

Let’s say you’ve just arrived in Japan and you’re having trouble meeting women. How do you attract Japanese women? Are their certain customs you’re not aware of? Is it the language barrier?

The best way to attract Japanese women is the same way that department stores, clothing stores, etc. attract Japanese women. BRANDING.

You have to pick a style and stick with it. Not just jeans and a sweatshirt like you wear back home either! You need to be “Oshare” as they say in Japanese, or “Stylish.” Not too much though. There is always the risk of looking “too” Japanese. That should be avoided above all else. Wear some hip clothes, but also accent your “foreign-ness.”

Cleanliness is also a big factor. Japanese women like clean men. Clean-shaven, well-groomed hair, etc.

For a lot of Japanese women, dating a foreign guy is a way to show off her status. You are partially an accessory to whatever outfit she is wearing that day.

Of course, you can’t change your appearance too much. That is to say you can’t change your eye color, etc. (sans elective surgery.) However, if you feel like going the extra step, dying your hair blonde and putting in blue contacts will really attract Japanese women.

The final piece is money. Japanese women above most other things, want you to have money, and want you to buy her things with that money. Eventually, want you to take care of them financially (in the long-term.)

Some of these things you cannot change about yourself. However, it is best to be aware of what Japanese women are into and prepare yourself for hunting that beautiful Japanese girl you’ve always wanted to date.




Exersize

Hello.♪
It`s so hot today, too.)@_@(

It`s difficult to beat the heat for my darling and me, coz we don`t have an air conditioner.;;
But we sweat so much because of the heat, our diet is going well!!('_-)
And a happy thing happened to me.(*_*)
I told you last time that my darling says what he thinks in directly to me.[目]
I don`t know it`s good or bad thing to me.
When I`m said something directly from him, I get hurt, but this time I was so happy.(*_*)

Before I started swimming diet, he told me that my hips were sagging.↓
I was so shocked to hear that. ('o')
I started swimming diet since.!!
It`s been three weeks or so since I started diet.
He said to me, “You look better. You look very fit!!”!!
I was so happy to hear that.^^.^^
He always tells what he thinks in his mind directly to me.
It means that the thing he said to me was real thing.[チョキ][ドキドキハート]
I really feel that exactly my hips are more tightened than before. !!
Exercise is really important, isn`t it?[ひよこ]
I went swimming two days in a row.
I tried to go swimming today, too, but I couldn`t go.(-_;)
I was too tired to go swimming three days in a row.;;
I think it is not good to push myself hard.[花束]
I will go swimming tomorrow with my darling.†

I think that Japanese men should also tell what they think in their mind directly.[花束]
If they do so, it may turn into good result.♪
But don`t forget to back it up later!!!!
Well see you next time(*^-^*)




Fire Frowers

Hello.[ひよこ]
Summer has come!! Hot days continue.

Are you all right?(ToT)
I hate heat and I sweat so much that I don`t know how many times I take shower in a day.;;

Recently I began taking a picture.

My darling lent me a camera and taught me how to take a picture.[目]
Taking pictures is so fun. I totally got addicted it.[リボン]
My darling taught me the basics of taking a picture so I can take the picture as I want to take.
He taught me how to take shadow and how to adjust light.♣
I knew nothing about taking a picture so now I enjoy taking a picture.(*_*)
He works as a painter but he has studied camera so he also takes wonderful beautiful pictures.♪

Last Monday I went taking a picture dressed as if I would work at the cornfield.^^.^^
(He said like that looking at me.)
I am not good at drawing picture but I think I can take a picture better than drawing picture.†
I know my pictures are not so good in the eyes of professional photographer.[林檎]
But I enjoy taking a picture so much.♪♯
I took 98 pictures last day.!!
I took much more than I expected.
After I went back home, he downloaded my pictures and gave me a comment.[ひよこ]
He praised 3 or 4 out of them.(-_;)
It was not so many but I was so glad to have his praise.[花]
I want to take pictures next holiday, too.↑
He told me that he would go to firework festival this summer and draw pictures.
There are many women wearing a yukata at firework festival in Japan.

I hope I see his beautiful pictures.[ドキドキハート]
See you next time~☆




Tottlse

Hello.♥
There were some Japanese women who were worried whether they would be able to communicate with foreigners.
But there was no need to worry like that.!
Soon after conversation started, they enjoyed their conversation sometimes with gestures or drawing picture.
All of the men participators were so gentlemen that women seemed to be so relaxed and enjoyed their communication in English.(^_^)
From the beginning to the end, we could see their smile.
We will have our next party on August 1st in Shinjuku.

We are waiting for your joining us.♪
Well, last Friday I went back to my home, I had a surprise from my darling.
I found a pretty necklace at a desk.[リボン]
He made the necklace secretly.
It is matching necklaces.♦
How nice surprise it was!! (*_*)
I was so glad to see such a present filled with affection.♥
And I found stewed giblets which were heated up for me.
I made a call and told to him “I`m coming home now.”!!
So he heated it up for me and went out of house for his part time job.[花]
Recently we seldom meet due to different work schedules.('o')
In spite of that situation, our heart is connected.('o')
Everybody who met at our last party, I wish you would start going out☆(^3^)
See you next time.(*^_^*)




Food plobble

Hello.☀

There was a small quarrel in this morning before I went out of my house.[台風]

My darling asked me what I want to eat tonight.
Honestly I wanted to eat something with its light flavor.[さくらんぼ]
But I thought he wanted to eat steak or something oily food on Saturday night.[豚]
I told him that I wanted to eat steak.

Suddenly he got mad at me.[雫]
I didn`t know the reason why he got mad.
He told me that he thought I wanted to eat something with its light flavor, so he prepared udon for me.
I thought I was lucky and I said to him, “I want to eat udon, too.” with great smile.^^.^^
But he still got mad at me, and said “I want you eat what you want to eat.”
I thought it was trouble to explain everything that happened,
so I said, “I really want to eat udon, too.” acting cute.(*_*)
He said to me, “Don`t push yourself.”
I also got mad at him. We had a quarrel this morning.;;
The reason why we had a quarrel was to think about each other, so I felt so sad.
I think that there are some troubles about food for international couples.[再読み込み]
For instance my darling is typical American, so I am not surprised that he likes hamburger and steak.
Sometime it is hard for me to eat them when I don`t want to eat them.

Well what will he cook tonight?!?
I will not eat too much at lunch to be able to eat steak.
See you tomorrow.(*^_^*)




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