James, a foreign man surprised that in the romance of dating a Japanese woman.
It is said that the more foreign men to watch movies, the more they yearn for Japanese women. It is not uncommon foreign men are surprised at the difference between the ideal and reality of Japanese women who dare to envision a relationship with a Japanese woman but really. In recent years many people will have a much better strength in Japanese women and men, are also various types. If your country is different, the culture difference, food is also different. But encountered various differences, there are a lot of foreign men and Japanese women that relationship.
Here’s James’ story:
How did you meet?
"Haha … that’s a common question”
I came to Japan from the United States as a lecturer of English school three years ago. I was hoping there was a long interest in Japan, I had been studying a little Japanese self-taught, whether it is not more progress if you actually go to Japan. Many Japanese I live in America, but there are many restaurants of Japanese, I did not see much in Louisiana live in me, he’s had a yearning to Japan superfluous.
Wherever you go, so be popular just because at that time I came to Japan with foreigners, I was going out with a few Japanese women. I’ve had people approaching, true love will not want to, because I still alien. I knew it from the moment I met her.
I am six months later I go out with a Japanese woman now, she is met with a referral from English school students. I had to say and I’m studying Japanese, student he had introduced me to.
Of course, it is the first assumption is that, as a friend.
I had said that she wanted to study English, I mean there was a condition.
I was OK with a light heart would be all-too-common pattern of Japanese women who ever met.
How did your relationship start?
"From friends to lovers"
I came to Japan I think at the same time had been longing to Japan, I I have felt attracted to Japanese women, and such would have a lot of women like Ms. Koyuki the role of high-Last Samurai was. However, I was surprised I came to Tokyo. Most women do not see that first come the clothes, I often women who have dyed brown hair instead of black as well.
brown hair was a Japanese woman I was introduced, people who later become my girlfriend.
Again, the fact that the Japanese taught from her purpose since I was, where I met were many cafes. She is a very serious nature, and that there is no delay in the time never
I am I would always you waiting for.
Still, I am greeted me with a smile, "Have you been well?" she said. As I remember the Japanese and go, so she also speaks English more and more, if you have time more than ever, we are now waiting to meet you.
It is the little her hair is not black, but it is a very beautiful features.
Do not ask yourself what, I white, women still I prefer this kind.
She may personality, and I want to go out with this woman, I tried to take the plunge and ask out.
Instead of studying, it is a date.
She was approached differently to me up to now as "Japanese women love foreign men."
I was worried about, and try to have turned down from her, kindly get the OK, has started dating from there.
"The first was puzzled to differences in diet"
Recently, I sometimes eat dinner with your parents to go to her house,
Still not good, but it is raw fish and natto. Since there is no habit of eating raw fish still.
There is still resistance. I like sushi, raw fish grip is riding and I am weak.
But then the table is always natto at her house, it seems always behave the sushi and sashimi platter visitor has come to say.
In Japan it seems to be natural hospitality, I is not eat (laughs)
Was to be honest, "I can not eat", I was careful with her "even if you do not say like that honestly." I was made to study and hit the rude sometimes be honest in Japan.
"Even that she was raging in the escort …"
Without even noticeably, my girlfriend is in a Japanese woman, I have thought that it Japanese women typically without even modest, but that I was surprised is jealous Surprisingly there.
I have been growing up are the norm, and you can come to escort the woman for Westerners, rather than just her escort only, It is something for the whole woman.
Profusely, I might become angry and she would be kind to women too.
Also, As I said before, I do not have experience in the United States of the home country that I was Mote to women, since coming to Japan, I can call out from a Japanese woman profusely. She is also worried about it.
How do you see your relationship in the future?
"I have overcome the cultural differences!"
I sense I have been dating a Japanese woman, and I’m still such that it is difficult, "meet also understand if you do not say" and "caring" peculiar Japanese. It is often said that the Japanese from her, "and you can see if you do not say," I understand it is hard for me. Maybe you can read the air, feeling and moving like that, in the "mercy" as the Japanese are rare. May offend her or unconsciously so.
Surprised that in this way, but there are many other, I love Japanese girlfriend like that. Not jealousy foreign women is great. I hope to know each other one by one in the future, to understand each other, and I wish I could marry her.