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Hello.
It`s so hot day today. It`s like summer.
I hate heat so much that my appetite is decreasing.
My darling went to a zoo with kindergarten children to sketch　some animals.
Although he went out of my house full of high sprits, I had a call from him on my break time, he told me that he was exhausted dripping with sweat.
The worst of it is that he couldn`t catch children`s Japanese.
Children`s Japanese seems to be difficult to listen clearly.
And I experienced the same situation on English.
Even three or four year-old children, native English level is so much higher than we expected.
He`ll probably tell me that he enjoyed today and depressed because of his poor Japanese.
Well I expect his pictures which he drew today.
Next Monday we`ll go to my hometown.
My hometown is in the country. It`s just Japanese style house, so I`ll bet he must be excited to see it.
He has told me that he wants to see it someday coz he has lived in apartment houses and only apartment houses.
Next week I take three days off, so it`s good to go back to my hometown.
It`s been more than one year since we went back last time.
I think my parents will be surprised to see him.
I`m sure they never imagine I would go out with a foreigner.
I wonder he will devote himself to draw pictures at my hometown.
It`s boring.
Well today is weekend.
Do you have any plans to go anywhere?
I think we can not go to hot-spring this weekend. He has jobs on both of Saturday and Suday.

Flowers:

Hello everyone, I hope you managed to deal with the snow better than I did.  Granted, back when I lived in North America, I got my fair bit of snow, but to be honest, one of the reasons I love Japan (or at least the Kanto area) is that I don’t have to deal with snow soaking my socks in the winter.  What’s worse is that Tokyo and Yokohama basically lock down in that a slight dusting of snow seems to shut down the trains.  And that’s just the big city – it must be worse for those of you in small towns.   Thankfully on the Saturday when we had the most I happened to have large stocks of bacon, which made for a great day for my spirit, but not for my cardiovascular system.

But this is not what people want to hear about, I am sure.  Today I am going to play that wonderful game that men love to play and that is putting women into various categories.  Actually to keep things simple I will just split them into two.  Specifically I want to talk about “International” Japanese girls and “Made in Japan” Japanese girls.

Do I sound like a close-minded jerk yet?  Maybe I am one, I don’t really know.  All I know is that I much prefer one over the other.  As always when we play this game it’s important to realize that not all girls can be put into a category and this mostly just for fun.

Anyway, let’s start with the “International” girl.  She likely speaks some degree of English, has been abroad her fair share of times and might have even lived overseas for a couple of years.  To put it simply, these are the girls I enjoy dating the most.  They often have a genuine curiosity about the world, and if they can in fact speak decent English, often have interesting opinions and unique perspectives on things.

The girls I have more trouble with are the ones I call “Made in Japan”.  She might speak English, but she has no real interest in the world outside of Japan.  I ultimately get bored of these types.  I personally find them the hardest to read and the hardest to communicate with.  This has nothing to do with their English level, and more to do with the fact that they generally don’t have the assertiveness that Japanese women who live abroad have.

Both types make for great girlfriends, but I guess now that I am older I am more interested in someone I can spar with verbally in either Japanese or English.

Of course, these are categories I have just made up, are barely valid and really don’t mean anything.  But I do feel that if you are going to date a Japanese girl, you are best off going for one who has made the effort to learn about the rest of the world.  But ultimately, the decision is yours.

Hello.
Today I am fine because last day I sit in a hot spring and got a massage.
After we`ve known each other, we often go to hot spring so my skin condition is also very good.
It was so fine day today, so he told me that if I had taken a day off today, we would have been to a zoo.
Well I had to work today, so it will be next time.
He took me to my office by his bike.
Fine day like today is the best day to ride on a bike.
Recently our boom is to keep our health.
We often eat nori with rice. Almost every time we take it.
Nori is popular among Japanese, but it`s not for American.
At first, it seemed like paper for him.
It tasted like just paper, and he had never eaten it.
But one day when he ate sushi, he overcame it.
Even though he can`t eat nori which is like “gohandesuyo”.
Someday he wants to overcome it, too.
And we continue working out.
I can`t find his muscles now. I expect to find it in near future.
Well I will go to travel with him.
The costumer of the tavern where he works for gave him a free ticket for travel.
It is first time for us to go travel with him, so I am so happy.
He has never taken yukata, so he is looking forward to wearing it.
I also tell you about it after we go to travel.
See you.（＾－＾）

So guys, how do you start up a conversation with Japanese girls? I hope for your sake it’s not straight on face to face. By this I mean, I hope you are not directly facing eachother.

Guys and girls have different ways of thinking about space. Japanese girls especially are shy and it is better to avoid direct interaction at first.

Men have a objective and move straight for it. Sometimes even ignoring other important things and only moving towards their goals. Women are different, especially Japanese women. Even if a guy falls from the sky right in front of us, we’d still think, “There are better guys to come.”

We’re patient.

So as guys move forward and feel some kind of connection before we Japanese women do. If you get to close to us right away, we’ll only pull back.

What’s the best solution then? You need to approach from the side.

The best way to do this is to get us in a setting that requires communication in such a manner. At a bar or restaurant are perfect. Try to appeal to us in from the side.
It is said that men look best from an angle rather than straight-on anyway. Have you heard that before?

If you do happen to be forced to talk face to face, adjust your chair or turn slightly so you are at a 45 degree angle. I know it sounds silly, but it really does help.

It’s not just the direction from which you approach or the angle you set yourself at either, the tone and volume of your voice is very important.

We respond to a more relaxed tone. Don’t be too excited. Show us how adult you are. You might think that is too reserved, but that is what gets us. It’s almost like fishing, leave the bait out there and relax. The trick is to get the women to respond to you and move in closer on their own.

And don’t forget! Keep the converstation going with questions about her. Make her the focus, and show your best side, and I’m sure things will go well for you!

How are you today?
Well where do you go or do you want to go with your darling?
We seldom have a chance to have a date outside the house.
So I remember well the rare date which we had outside the house.
The best date I had with him is the one we had at a zoo.
It`s lucky that there is a zoo near our house.
Although it takes only 10minites by his bike, it was so fine day that day, so we walked to the zoo.
On the way to the zoo, there was a bread shop where he often goes.
We dropped in the bread shop, and brought a croquette sandwich.
It was so delicious, and the taste was so nostalgic.
He came to Japan and ate a Japanese taste croquette for the first time.
He eats it in a single mouthful.
He always complains that in America there are not any sandwiches as small as Japanese ones.
Exactly when I visited America, I was so surprised to look fairly big- sized hamburgers.
He told me that he become slim after he came to Japan.
It costs a lot if he buys enough food as much as he ate in America.
He couldn`t eat enough food so he lost 10 kilograms after he came to Japan.
I envy him so much!!
At the zoo he devoted himself solely to drawing pictures.
Next he sketches there with kindergarten children.
Well done! I was very impressed by his works especially when he expressed the delicate collar of a flamingo.
I respect him so much coz he can do the things which I never can do.
When he sketches something seriously, he is so attractive.
When men are doing something seriously, they are so charming.
And his works are also attractive for me.
It`s so cool.
He told me that someday he would draw me.
My heart beat faster at the very thought of it.
See U（*^_^*）