Marriage
Hello
Do you think to live with your partner before marriage?
We have been together more than 6 months since we knew each other.
We don`t have even one day when we didn`t meet.
No matter how busy he is, he wants to meet me.
I heard that living together before marriage is natural in America.
I often hear that it is not good to live together before marriage.
The reason is that when they live together before marriage, it will be difficult for men to decide marriage.
Actually I have lived together with my ex-boyfriend for 7years, he didn`t ask me to get married.
We ended up breaking up.
But I think to live together before marriage is not so bad thing.
I thin it is more like good thing than bad one.
If your purpose is to get merry early, it is better not to live together before marriage.
But it is better to know your life style is different from your partner before marriage than
to know it after marriage.
If you know it before marriage, you should talk about it well.
And if you can improve it, there is no problem.
If you can make your comfortable life style with your partner, it is so good thing.
If you can`t improve it and feel uncomfortable with your partner, you can decide to break up.('_')
When you decide to break up with your partner after marriage, I`m sure it is very troublesome.
I think it is easy for you to adjust your style to your partner for short time, but if it is for long time.
I`m sure it`s difficult to change your life style.
I think it is natural for you to decide to get married your partner after you understand your partner well.
It is difficult to know the real life style or values especially for international couples.
I heard that some couples got divorced soon after marriage because they knew that their values were so different.
I think we should get married after we know each other well.
I just thought like that, so I wrote down today.
Last wedding I went to. Look who was there? Recagnise him?