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Not only are men and women different on the outside, but also on the inside. Our brains are made differently. Men are better at certain tasks and women better at other tasks.

Many people say that women are selfish. I think that especially Japanese women are selfish. It is always,
“I’m hungry”
Or
“I’m cold.”
Or
“I want this.”
Or
“I want to do this or that.”

The truth of the matter is that Japanese women are very concerned about whether you are interested in them or not. We hate to be disliked and we are always nervous you will lose interest. It is not just with men we like, but with our friends as well. We need confirmation all the time that we are important to you.

We do this by testing you. Are you listening intently to what we are saying? Are you responsive to our needs? If we say we are hungry, please suggest we get some food or even better making some food would go a long way to show how much you care. If we say we are cold or hot, please do whatever you can to make us feel more comfortable. If you react correctly to our needs then we feel like you like us and we feel closer to you.

This is one of the biggest keys to winning the heart of a Japanese woman. LISTEN and RESPOND accordingly. But it doesn’t stop there. Many Japanese will start to be selfish once you have officially started dating, so you should be prepared for such an outcome.

Another important part about getting along with Japanese women is to understand the importance of peace and understanding. We don’t like to fight, even if some of our words/actions might seem otherwise.

If we ask if we are wearing something cute or pretty, always respond with a yes. If we say that this food tastes great, please say yes it does. If we say we liked something try to agree with us. If we feel like our conversations are peaceful and going well, then we will feel closer to you and more likely to start dating.

Please keep all of my advice in mind the next time you are talking to a Japanese girl.
Good Luck and see you next time!（*^_^*）

One of the most difficult things when you talk with us is that you had better not tell us anything, other than compliments, directly. Especially anything negative.

I’ll give you an example.
I think that most women want to make dinner/lunch for their sweethearts. We take time to find a recipe we think you will like. Then we go to the supermarket to buy the ingredients and pour our love into your meal. We like to do this for you.
But some Japanese food may be different from the food in your home country and it may not be to your liking. Even so, we would love it if you could eat as much as possible.
But what if you can’t eat it all, what should you do?

First, please tell us thank you, even if you didn’t like it. Just those two little words will make us sooooo happy!

And if you cannot finish it or eat any of it, then please sugar-coat your response with a white lie. Something like, “Thank you for cooking for me. I know you went through a lot of trouble to cook, but I am not used to this kind of flavor/food. We don’t have it in my country. If I get used to it, I might be able to eat more, but I cannot eat any more today. Sorry.”

I know it’s a mouthful, but this will help to smooth things over. And please make sure you tell us after you have finished eating, and not after your first bite.

I think you might be surprised and even confused to hear this, but we like you to tell us what you think. Recently, Japanese guys don’t express their feelings, so we sometimes get upset. The important part is the way you break bad news.

I hope it’s not too confusing.☆

Well, see you next time （*^_^*）

Everyone wants to go out with Japanese women, don’t they?

Have you ever met a Japanese woman?
I’m sure that Japanese women are totally different from the women in your home country. I think guys who know us probably understand this.
It’s natural for different countries and cultures to produce different kinds of women.
So, in order for you to understand us better, and have a chance to catch one of the beautiful Japanese women, I’m going to give you some advice.

This method for attracting and interacting with Japanese women is based on the opinions of other foreigners who have dated Japanese women before.

First, I want to tell you the good points and bad points of Japanese women.
I hope you will be able to understand us better and have smooth communication.

 1. Japanese women are active!!!

Japanese women are lively and active! We are open-minded and long to try new things. We also have a lot of interest in foreign countries, and when we decide to go abroad, we leave the very next day!

We don’t plan before we act.

Recently, there are a lot of women who wish to improve themselves. They aren’t satisfied with their current situation. So, usually once or twice a week, we like to learn something new, like English, dancing, candle making, cooking, sports, etc.
Many women are studying to gain some kind of certification in their field of study. Japanese women like learning!

So, you guys have to have the energy to keep up with us!

2. Japanese women are free

Now, Japanese women are free to do anything we want!
When we want to study, our parents let us leave home and study in the city.
When we want to keep working after marriage, our husbands let us work.
And Sometimes the look after our children at home.
We work just as hard as men, even harder sometimes!

Japanese women are becoming more and more assertive. We want to contribute not only to our families, but also to society.
Some women even keep chasing their dreams after they get married and even while they are raising children!

So, our ideal man is the guys who can understand us and support us.

3. We Japanese women are energetic towards our darlings.

We express our love to our partner much more than you’d expect.
Sometimes we give our love priority over our family and careers.
It might be up to you whether you feel this is “too much” or “surrounded by love.”

Although we have freedom, we tend to place our priority on our partner.
I hope you guys understand this tendency as we will care much more for you than we do for ourselves!

☆  Is this a bad point of Japanese women?
The most difficult part about talking to Japanese women is that we don’t give clear and direct answers.
For instance, we won’t tell you what kind of food we want to eat, we’ll only say, “Anything you want.”
Sometimes we say, “I’m not angry,” when we are actually angry. Or we might even say “I hate you,” even though we love you very much!
We seldom speak directly, especially in front of you. We just hope you will figure out what we are really thinking.

If you can understand our complicated “girl’s hear,” I’m sure you can get along with us.
But it’s not easy, even Japanese men have a difficult time with us sometimes.
Maybe the most important thing is to realize that our backgrounds are different and to make an effort to understand each other.

Don’t give up!!